šŸ¦ 172: Self-Care for Empaths and HSPs with Sarah Santacroce

If you ever feel like a sponge for the energy (and moods) of people around you, particularly during times of massive change or crisis; if you feel flooded by emotion, overwhelmed with empathy, more sensitive than usual to sights, sounds, and media; and/or hit with powerful bursts of intuition, this episode is for you.

Sarah Santacroce and I recorded a two-way conversation for Pivot and her podcast, Gentle Business Revolution (be sure to also check out the PDF of her manifesto, Gentle Business Revolution Manifesto).

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More About Sarah Santacroce

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Sarah Santacroce is an internationally recognized LinkedIn Consultant, entrepreneur, podcaster, ā€˜Hippie turned Business Coachā€™ and the Founder of the Gentle Business Revolution.  

In addition to her LinkedIn expertise, Sarah is known for helping fellow introverts market their business authentically & anxiety-free, sell their services & make a difference. Sheā€™s also the host of the ā€˜Gentle Business Revolutionā€™ podcast where she has conversations that aim to disrupt the current marketing paradigm and bring more empathy and kindness to the business world. Sarah has interviewed influential entrepreneurs including Chris Brogan, Dorie Clark, Mark Schaefer, Jason Swenk, Milana Leshinsky and Denise Wakeman to name a few.  

Sarahā€™s upbringing and lifeā€™s experiences inspired a yearning to create a global movement that encourages people to bring more empathy and kindness to the business world, live a more meaningful life and take care of our mother earth and each other. The Gentle Marketing Revolutionā„¢ is an integral part of the The Gentle Business Revolution movement.  

She lives in beautiful Switzerland where she was born and raised, but considers herself an alternative thinking citizen of this world. When sheā€™s not working she loves adventure and traveling (ask her about her alter ego in Sicily), yoga and nature walks or hanging out with her 3 boys (a husband and two teenage sons).

Topics Covered

  • Experiencing the collective sadness

  • Grief: ā€œAll change involves lossā€ 

  • How we define empath and highly sensitive person (HSP)

  • Shifting from a frozen state into helping mode

  • Showing compassion and the challenge is not to absorb that pain

  • Empower vs. fix

  • Tools for not absorbing othersā€™ energy

  • Be the change: focus on  your own mental, emotional, spiritual health and groundedness

  • The importance of rest and recharging during this time

  • How can you serve without being self-serving? 

  • Now is a great time to be visible, be helpful, prepare for once weā€™ve gone through this

  • What can you give for free? How can you help? 

  • Now is not the time for perfectionism; the world is changing around us too quickly 

  • Call to rise and contribute; not just be a passive recipient

  • Learning skills you might not have otherwise learned

  • Over-giving burnout

  • Be clear about who you can serve during this time, and how you can best serve

  • The advantage of intuition and being an HSP during this time

  • Being discerning about what we say yes to, how we shift requests

Resources Mentioned

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